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Hi. So today I'm going to tell you about
how I got into cuckolding.

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Well, my husband and I have always led a

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monogamous marriage.

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And we really enjoy each other, and
we've always enjoyed each other. We

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do.

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And we are very much in love.

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But one day out of the blue, we started
talking about

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having all of our fantasies fulfilled,
our sexual

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fantasies.

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And as you all may or may not know, I'm
a big fan of open

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and honest conversation in a
relationship or a marriage.

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I think it's very fulfilling to do that.
And it really

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brings your relationship to a whole
other level because you have

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a respect.

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a trust and there's never any guessing
so anyway

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we had gotten to talking about
fulfilling fantasies

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and

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up until that

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point in our lives you know

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pre -marriage or and the like I had only
ever

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been intimate and had sex with two other
men

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aside from my husband all good
experiences

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love love love how open and honest we
are and willing to

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experiment with things

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So I had expressed to my husband that
one of the fantasies that I had was

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I wanted to try to have a three -way

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Male female male three -way I

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wanted to be with two men at the same
time

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And as the conversation took place and
carried on, you

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know, we discussed certain scenarios and
different things.

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And, you know, he wanted, you know, we
both wanted to fulfill each other's

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fantasies. And in talking about this, he
had said that that was something

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that...

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He had always thought about as well So
we decided to

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Try it out I had told him that I had
wanted to at least try it one

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just to see if I liked it and enjoyed it
and what it was all about and

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So we started looking around We
discussed things about how we wanted

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it to transpire and

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What we wanted from it and the things we
wanted to do all things that I

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encourage anyone to do Just

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wanting to engage in it for the first

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time so That being said we started
looking around

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fetish sites for

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A bull.

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And when we did finally find a match, I

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will admit I was extremely hesitant and
extremely nervous.

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I didn't know what to, I mean, I knew
how I wanted it to play out, and we

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had discussed how we wanted it to play
out, but I don't.

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know, you know, when you get caught up
in the midst of things, how things are

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going to transpire sometimes.

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You know, one of the things that I
always encourage people is to have a

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word. We had our safe word ready.

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We discussed with our bull what we were
looking for specifically, how we wanted

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things to play out.

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And despite me being very nervous, it
was a pleasurable

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experience.

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I really enjoyed it. He really enjoyed
it. The bull really enjoyed it.

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So it kind of just spun off from there.

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And I've had people...

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asked me if

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I think any less of my husband

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because he likes it or think he's less
of a

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man. I don't.

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He is very much a very manly man.

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I know a lot of times men in high,
stressful work positions

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that have to always

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be in control. They use cuckolding as a
means to

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relinquish that control.

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And we really liked it.

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It was a good release for him.

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I had fun doing it.

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As far as our experience goes and what
we do, it's

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kind of a spin -off of cuckolding, I
guess.

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We do engage in different scenarios.

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Him watching, him being a part of it.

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He is totally free, doesn't touch

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the man, the other male.

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Sometimes we go out on a date and come
home together.

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And hubby gets home from work and...

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Just kind of chills in another area of
the house and waits for us to be done

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sometimes he comes in and takes part
Which is always fun

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But yeah, that's kind of where it all

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started and it's kind of grown over the
years Engaged in several

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other things

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I had never, at one point, we had
discussed and he had asked me if I

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was interested. And we had noticed we
were getting lots of messages from

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BBC.

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And up until this new

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type of play for us, I had never been.

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With anyone other than I'll just say it
a white man

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And the first time I was with

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a BBC I think I enjoyed

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it more because Really I just enjoyed
the contrast and skin color

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if that sounds weird at all. I don't
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i've had people but anyway it's kind of
grown from there um i do enjoy

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big i tend to be a little bit of a size
queen i guess

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um i do like that um like

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the bigger the better um one experience
i had with the bbc he was

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so big like i just not even fathomed

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that Cox could even get that big. I
mean, my God, like I couldn't get my

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hand around it, the girth, and he was
extremely long. I didn't measure, so I

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don't know.

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But he had the length and the girth,
like I couldn't touch my fingers

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around when I went to give him head.

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it it didn't even like i couldn't even
get it past maybe that much

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in my mouth um i was like oh my god is
this man gonna fit inside

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me um to be real honest

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but that was a fun

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experience like when i went to

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Ride him Get on top of him cowgirl
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Like I literally felt

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Like inside being stretched out it was
just amazing

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and it felt so good But

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hubby and I our relationship is pretty
solid so that

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We know that we are the only ones for
each other.

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There will never be anyone to break us
apart.

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We look at engaging in cuckolding and
swinging as

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an enhancement, as a tool.

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for play every now and then. We do still
engage in sex ourselves

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with each other.

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We are intimate with each other alone

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with no one else.

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But yeah, we have a good time. We kind
of view it as...

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It's like using a dildo or a sex toy you
don't always use that when you're

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having sex with your partner

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And

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You use it as an enhancement every now
and then something fun to

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change things up But yeah

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that

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That's kind of how we got into
cuckolding.

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There is no real jealousy.

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And I feel like since we started
engaging in this, I almost feel like we

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understand each other more. We've had a
lot of conversations about the whys and

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the hows and what it makes us feel
inside and how.

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It makes us, and I know this may sound
odd, and how can this

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be?

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Some people might wonder how this can
be, and I don't know how to explain it,

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but I feel like we're almost closer to
each other because we engage in this

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than we were before.

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If I'm being 100 % transparent here.

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Yeah, I think I feel

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like we're closer to each other and
deeper in love because

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we know that that is something that, you
know, when you're in love with

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someone, you want to do things and give
them things that they enjoy and make

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them happy.

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And it's so different in the fact that
it's just

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an intimate giving.

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Like no one else can give you that
intimate

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allowance and freedom than your partner.

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So, yeah, that's kind of how.

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We got into it and, you know, I don't
think any

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less of him. I feel like we're even more
in love and that just makes me love him

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even more.

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Knowing that to see me get satisfied

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is so intense for him.

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and makes him have a deeper love and
appreciation for me because he wants to

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see me happy.

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And it makes me have a deeper love and
affection for him because

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I know it's something that he enjoys and
I know it's something that makes him

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feel good too.

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To be able to watch me engage in that
and be free and be

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satisfied. Like him doing that, allowing
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to do that, engage in that, makes me,

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knowing that that makes me happy and
satisfies me, makes me love him even

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that he is so selfless.

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give that to me

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so

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yeah that's kind of how we got into that

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and you know it may not be the true our

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situation may not be the 100 % textbook

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description of cuckoldry but we have
taken it just

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like with any other fetish or lifestyle
choice you know you take it and you make

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it your own you mold it into something
that you want and desire

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and you know it's ours that

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situation and that scenario

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is ours to share, so I don't feel like
that could

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bring us any closer.

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That is something that we've created for
ourselves.

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But, yeah, that's kind of how we got
into cuckolding, and it kind of spun

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off from there.

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And, yeah, if it's something you were...

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wanting to engage in with your partner,
I highly recommend it. I know it's not

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very conventional and it's very taboo
and it's not talked about much and a lot

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of people like to keep it very discreet
for various reasons and we

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respect that because we like to keep it
discreet for our own personal reasons

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as well.

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So yeah.

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But if you get into it or want to try
it, take it and make it your own.

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Make sure everyone is on the same page.

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Open and honest discussions about things
you want to happen, how you want

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things to play out. And have fun.

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We do. We love it.

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See you soon.

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Bye.